
In case you haven’t noticed, a potentially distressing number of the words we use to describe sex/sexual things carry that same moralizing connotation (see: “dirty”, “filthy”, “lewd”, etc.). It’s not even necessarily about the fact that the word “naughty” implies that sex is in someway bad or indecent and those shame-y undertones should offend my refined sex-positive sensibilities. By all means, go forth and babble.ġ25 Truth or Dare Questions For a V Hot Game Night If you’re into baby talk in bed and everyone involved is on board, then that sounds like a horny good time to me. This also isn’t about me yucking anyone’s age play yum. I saw the best minds of my generation destroyed by “Off to the Races.”) Also, dirty talk that hinges on power dynamics is, like, most dirty talk-sorry to the age-gap haters. (As a woman who came of age during Lana del Rey’s Born to Die era, it was pretty much inevitable. Don’t get me wrong, I am a total “Daddy” girl. To be clear, this isn’t about me being weirded out by dirty talk that hinges on age/power dynamics. It’s supposed to be sexy-sometimes they use it to describe sex in general and other times to describe me, specifically-but all it makes me want to do is toss my phone in a gutter and surrender myself to the nearest convent.


A quick search of my messages suggests at least five men have casually dropped “naughty” into the chat in recent months-one of whom used it a rather aggressive ten (10!) times over the course of two (2) conversations. Unfortunately, the word “naughty” will not leave me alone, by which I mean men will not stop saying it to me.
